Every girl wants to feel safe; she wants to know that the guy who says he loves her, will protect her if she is in any danger. She wants him to be her personal superhero. Even though it is a common known fact, that a man’s natural instinct is to be protective, it is absolutely of no good if he cannot show it to the woman he loves. She cannot read your mind, so go ahead, tell her you will keep her safe, hold her gently in your arms and make her feel like this is where she wants to be, that in your arms, she is the safest she has ever been. So, you don’t have to be superman to ‘get the girl’, you just need to know how to hold her right, and she is all yours.
You might love her more than Romeo loved Juliet, but it won’t matter if you do not take her opinions into consideration. If you want to be a special person in her life, you need to listen to her while making decisions, even for things as small as, ‘Which movie to watch? ‘. This makes her feel important, like her opinion matters. In today’s world, if a girl thinks that the guy does not take her opinions as seriously as he should, she will walk out the door.
Baggy pants and over sized t-shirts are for boys who have just hit puberty and think that it looks cool, real men do not wear them. Girls love men who have a good dressing sense. When I say good dressing sense, it does not mean you have to wear Gucci or Versace ( not that we would mind it), or spend hours to get dressed, all we want is for you to put a little more thought into what you wear. Here is a little hint – Next time you go on a date with a girl, instead of wearing a t-shirt or an extremely flamboyant shirt and flipflops , opt for a simple plaid button down shirt or a plain white shirt with blue jeans , a clean shave and a pair of shoes (Timberland, Converse, the choices are infinite) , and I assure you , if not anything else, you are surely getting an A+ for you dressing sense.
Girls believe in fairytale moments, romantic movies have forced them to believe that the guy of their dreams will sweep them off their feet. Nowadays girls are not impressed by the cheesy pick up lines or super romantic dialogues, they want you to do something unexpected, like kissing her in the rain when she least expects it, going on a random trip to an exotic location or taking her to the nearby park at 5 in the morning to see the sunrise and proposing her then. Spontaneity is the golden key to a girl’s heart. So be unique, be innovative and think of the craziest and most extraordinary things you could do to impress her, because the more innovative you are, the higher are your chances of impressing the girl.
Call it superficial, but most women want their men tall and handsome (six pack abs are an extra bonus). Just like you guys want Kareena Kapoor and Scarlett Johansson as your girlfriend; women are on the lookout for Ranbir Kapoor and Ian Somerhalder. If you are a 6 foot tall guy with deep soul piercing eyes, perfect lips and a strong square jaw line, I personally doubt you will ever have an issue impressing girls, because your first impression will be impeccable. But if you are not so god gifted and your personality does not hit the roof, then my advice to you is, hit the gym and get those abs which girls drool over, these abs will help girls ignore the few character flaws you might have.
“If you can make her laugh, you can make her do anything.”- Marilyn Monroe
The way to a man’s heart is through his stomach; similarly the way to a woman’s heart is through her laughter. About 90% of the women surveyed believe that this is the key point that they look for in a man. A girl wants to be happy and what better way to make her happy than by throwing a few jokes here and there. But be very careful, girls can get extremely irritated if your jokes get too silly or nonsensical. If you are not originally that funny, you can always try, girls find it adorable when they see a guy trying, but again do not show her that you are trying too hard, no one likes a desperate man.
You might have all the above given qualities, but it will all mean nothing if you do not care about her and her feelings and you go around cheating on her with every female species you come across. This is the most obvious and the most important thing that women look for in a guy, she should know that her man is only hers and not her neighbor’s, best friend’s, hairdresser’s and so on. She should also be sure that the guy who says he loves her, also cares about her and will make conscious decisions daily to make sure he does not upset her, and if he ever does upset her, he makes it his prime duty to make her feel better. You might lack the looks, might lack the personality, but if you love her with all you heart, you will spend every day trying to make it special for her and that my friend, will get you the girl, and if she still cannot see that you are the one for her, then maybe she isn’t the right girl for you.
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